Sunday, April 15, 2012
When someone attacks your faith
Recently we went on a field trip to the Museum of Fine Arts in St. Petersburg, Fl. I was quite excited to take the children to what I deemed a real art museum. We have been a little lackadaisical in our art studies but we do have some artists in our repertoire. An added bonus was that they were offering an ancient Egypt exhibit too.
All was well, we quickly had to have a conversation about how there might be some nudity in the paintings and pictures. The children were instructed to use caution near the paintings and sculptures. Imagine our surprise when we ran into a docent leading a tour through the ancient Egypt exhibit that we were able to join with no problem.
In hindsight, I should have known something was amiss when she explained some myths regarding Egyptian gods like they were fact. Although uncomfortable, I brushed it off as she was simply playing a role. All of the children in the group were quite enthralled with her renditions. Besides, none of the other homeschool moms seemed to be bothered by it.
Then we hit the Jewish slave area. I was aghast at her assertion that the Jews were not Egyptian slaves. Her argument was that they were being fed & quite well. Therefore, they could not have been slaves. It was quite a preposterous statement to say the least. Two breathes later, she asked who believed that the Jews crossed the Red Sea. Lots of hands went up. It was at that point that she announced it was not really the Red Sea but merely a quicksand pit. When questioned if she meant the Biblical Exodus, she said yes. She did not deny that there was a mass exodus from Egypt by the Jewish people during the reign of Ramses the Great. That much has been historically proven. What she debunked in her own theory was that they did not cross an ocean but a quicksand pit. She then quickly ended the tour and left the area.
I want to say that she is just ignorant or misinformed. There was really no need to say it during the tour . It was completely unnecessary. I do belong to a Christian homeschool group that was in attendance that day. Many of the children had church shirts on with Scripture verses. The docent clearly saw that we were a Christian group. She then deemed it necessary to "educate" us on her version of the truth.
I was not able to confront her on her clear bias. I'm not sure that I would have to be honest. It came out of nowhere so I did not have time to collect my thoughts to debunk her misstatements. A lively discussion was held over lunch with my group about how we knew her statements were wrong. We also had a great discussion with the children on what one should do when someone attacks your faith. I would like to think that we responded gracefully and respectfully. It was a great learning experience for everyone, children and adults.
So , tell me dear friends. What do you do when someone insinuates that the Bible isn't accurate? How do you teach your children to stand up for their faith with respect and grace? I am still struggling with this issue and whether we should have said more at the moment. What are your thoughts?
I'd have to say I agree with what you all did. Turn the other cheek is always the best thing to do in my book. Besides, children learn from example. If you are steadfast in your belief, then your children will see that and learn that no matter what someone may say about your faith, you will always believe that and it will not bring you down.
ReplyDeleteFor me it would depend on the person, the circumstance etc. in this situation, what **i** would have done is politely discuss it with her. For me personally, I want my dd to learn how to defend what she believes in both intelligently and in love, so I guess that would have been my stance. I don't know if there were others in the group though besides your hs group? If there were many others I may have just commented something quickly and politely to her and moved on.
ReplyDeleteI would probably write a letter to her in care of the museum and outline your resources that back up what you believe. You turn a negative into a positive by becoming so well-informed that you can defend your beliefs and explain them to your children as well for damage control. We avoid these confrontations by touring museums with our book of centuries and focusing on the parts that we already know and adding to our own knowledge. You have fewer chances for confrontations that way. I have done several blog posts about this and it really is a personal and meaningful way to add to your understanding.
ReplyDeleteI have to say that I would have done what you did in this case. I typically try to be polite knowing that others have different beliefs than I do. Every one believes in different things and we don't have the right to judge them on our beliefs is my motto. Having a group discussion afterwards with the kids to help revalidate their beliefs with them was a great follow up.
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